If you have been questioning your marriage and want to address the most dangerous problems, consider trying these tools. They can help you save your marriage… or may make you realize that the relationship has run its course.

One of the hardest parts of leaving your spouse is admitting that this is the best choice for your life. “If you’re chronically unhappy, it’s easy to blame your job or money or family stress…But it could also be that you’re using those issues as an excuse to not look at your struggling marriage.”

Bottom line? If you ignore something because it seems hard, it’s only going to get worse until you finally deal with it.