Divorce is a tough time for most. It can bring out your worst worries and insecurities.
In the midst of the process, you may find yourself worrying about whether you will suffer the fate of other vengeful divorced couples you know. After divorce, you may even compare your recovery to your spouse’s.
Wendy Paris, author of Seven Principles of Parting, explains why this can hurt your ability to move forward in a recent Psychology Today article.
Don’t do it!